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Old November 29th, 2004, 11:24 AM   #41
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The "holidays" are such a different thing for me, first of all, I am not a christian in a land where most are, to some degree. Second this is my first holiday alone after ending a 7 year relationship. i don't expect to be too lonely, for i have many friends and my sons... both of which will be home for the winter holiday.
However, I have previously spent many holidays alone and what I have learned is that, just as happiness can only come from inside, so can the saddness. from the holidays. Acknowledge feelings, for there are no wrong feelings, only the actions we attach to them. Then take control of your actions and turn the feelings inside out.
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