Thread: Celibacy
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Old January 2nd, 2005, 08:47 PM   #16
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This is kind of a different twist to this conversation but I am 36 and still a virgin. I have had several sexual encounters in my lifetime but never full flegded intercourse. I was brought up believing that you were to wait until marriage but I have had no prospects so far. I am getting tired of waiting and am afraid my belief system is limiting my life but the thought of giving it up so easily and casually is heart wrenching. I have someone in my life now who wants very much to have sex with me but I have been holding him at arms length because he told me early on that he wanted to spend time with me but not to expect committment and marriage. He makes me feel so good and I don't want to lose him but feel I might lose myself if I give in to him and miss out on saving myself for "the one". Please, any opinions out there?
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