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Old March 27th, 2006, 09:44 AM   #20
MintyFemme2
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You know people are always going to have this discussion. To be or not to be . I could probably remain celibate for the rest of my life and me satsified. But I can't live one day without the human touch.
People on the whole ( not all) compare intimacey with sex. I can tell you from my experience it isn't the sex I miss since loosing Peggy. I miss the intimacy more then anything. Of course people are more intimate before and after sex most of the time. But the sexual act itself does not give me the intimacy I am missing.
The next time you are thinking about weather or not to have sex think of what it would be like with out the actual sex to fullfill your intimacy needs/wants. Being celeibate is not hard if you have your other wants /needs met.
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