Thread: Yours Orally
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Old June 6th, 2010, 03:52 PM   #1
mandymonday
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Question Yours Orally

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. He's 43 and I'm 26. He's my first boyfriend and I was a virgin when we met. I lost my virginity last week. It doesn't mean that we hadn't had sex before. The thing is this time "it" got to that part and blood was involved plus awful pain afterwards. Before then, he managed to get it deep enough and, oh, let's skip it. He always got an orgasm.

My problem is my boyfriend craves for oral sex but I truly don't want to do it. He's been asking for it since the first few times. My refusal was perfectly understandable at first because "his" was the first and only one I saw in my whole life. I was so afraid of it that I couldn't look at or touch it. Now I've got used to it, though the sight of it still bothers me sometimes. However, the idea of putting it in my mouth scares and disgusts me.

He said, "Everbody does it." and "It's totally normal."

Is it true? Is oral sex being performed in general by every couple?

Thank you in advance for your advice.
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