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Old February 11th, 2011, 08:56 PM   #12
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Jennifer, I was going to give the same advice as Uni did, so I'm glad that you've tried it and it's working. Sex is more than just a penis in a vagina! Knowing you need a little more time means he can do other things for you...like having him use a vibrator on you before you two have sex, or he can use his mouth or his fingers or a combination of the above.

Another suggestion is to buy desensitizing gel, which contains a topical numbing agent that will reduce the stimulation on his penis. He orgasms because his penis is stimulated to a certain point, so reducing that stimulation allows him to last longer.

As for birth control, I like it because it made my periods more regular but don't do it because you think it'll be intimate. It'll still be over too quickly without you getting all you want out of it.
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