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Old February 12th, 2011, 04:04 PM   #3
julie
julie
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
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I'm in a similar position- my husband recently told me that he had a 3 year long affair which he ended last summer. He "fell in love with me"-after 27 year marriage which wasn't all too good and doesn't see any problem with going on as if nothing happened. Our youngest is 3... and I don't want to divorce, but I don't feel anything for him-but a lack of trust and a feeling of despair with all the comparisons to an "imaginary"woman- imaginary to me, at least.
But, as I said, he's in love and being a wonderful husband and father which he never was before. I'm just going on and on- with no real feelings . Like I've lost touch with myself and have no idea what I feel.
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