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Old July 8th, 2011, 10:53 PM   #80
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Irish, I read your post after I posted. Some people in life do not want to change. I see it in my work and I use to try and change them, to no avail. Now I do what I can, listen, encourage and if they do not want to change...so be it.

It is their life, their choice and I only have one life on this earth and I think I will reserve my energy (mental and otherwise) for myself and the people around me who care enough to live a better life. I have had much negativity in my past and am a much happier person now since I made the decision to change my thinking and my choices.

What I have learned from past experiences, is that I refuse to be dragged down by people who want to share their darkness with me but refuse to even make one attempt to change it.
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