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Old July 11th, 2011, 02:18 AM   #33
GiaBella
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The reason why you don't love yourself is because of your looks. Would you love yourself if you were beautiful and had an awesome body? Think about it. Fix yourself up in order to reach your goal which is love, marriage and kids. Get to the gym or do some workouts at home and get some plastic surgery.

About the sex issue, you need to think outside of your religion bubble and step into the real world and have some great sex! Religion was created to set boundaries and to make people fearful of crossing those boundaries. No one is going to punish you for acting on your human nature. My first time was when I was 14 years old and I thought I was in love and that my partner loved me (of course it was just lust). It wasn't painful but more of a weird feeling because it was something different that I had to get accustomed to just like everything else in life. I've been with many others since then and have loved 3 more times after him and I can honestly say that I had the biggest orgasims with men that I didn't even have the slightest love for. Having great sex is based on your mental state of mind, attraction, and of course the size and shape of the males penis. You need to get over your fear and get out there!
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