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Old November 22nd, 2011, 05:43 PM   #5
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Little Orange, I know it's hard to move on from an abusive relationship. Yes that was abusive. Controlling both mentally & physically ( not allowing you to be with your friends, accusing you of things you know you didn't do ). You certainly are well rid of him. .. Take time to work on your well being. Work on your self worth. This character worked on breaking your defenses down, you need to work on rebuilding them.
Try a writing exercise.. for everything negative he said to you find a positive to counteract that. Bet you will find the positives will out way the negatives.. be true to yourself. ... After that really do something to boost your self worth up.

Good luck. It will take time to trust again. It will happen. Build up your confidence after that you can move on. Please don't go back to that manic relationship. You deserve so much better. Good luck.
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