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Old April 25th, 2012, 03:29 AM   #2
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: IA
Posts: 540
Well, personally, I don't have alot of experience with long term ex's, but the loss and hurtfulness I totally get.

Ofcorse your feelings get hurt more easily now, I mean, when you've so recently been through something that hurts as much as cheating obviously would. At the risk of sounding cliche... think of it like you would a stab wound, until it's healed completely, it doesn't take much to make it bleed again.

And the loss... well that's what it is, isn't it. I think it's just a time game. Dealing with a loss of that magnitude (best friend & boyfriend), it's just going to take time. I know thats the last thing you want to here. I really wish I could give you a time frame, but there just isn't one. Everyones time frame is different.

Hope this helps. And if it doesn't, I'm not the only one here. I'm sure one of these other fine ladies can give you some insight with the experience to back it up. I hope things get better for you, soon.
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