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Old May 11th, 2012, 10:46 PM   #124
Synful_Poet
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Hello Braveblue, welcome to WOW.

Sorry to hear you're going through this situation. It sounds horrible, and it also sounds like you're really struggling with what to do. I don't have any experience in this, but I guess if I were in your shoes....Id be freaking out too.

Fifteen years is a long time and I know you don't want to hurt your husband. In my opinion, and I'm sure you already know this, you need to figure out if what you feel for this other man is real or if it's referred. By this I mean, sometimes when you've been with one person for such a long time and someone else pays attention to you...it's the greatest feeling in the world because it's been so long since you've had that much attention thrown in your direction.

Now, I'm not saying this is the case, and I'm certainly not trying to belittle what you feel. Just something to think about.

Best of luck.
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