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Old June 4th, 2012, 11:53 PM   #1
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Struggling with my boyfriend of 3yrs

I just needed a place to come vent. My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past 3 years. He works out of town for weeks at a time. I knew that we would barely see each other due to his work, but I did not anticipate how much. I can handle him being gone for long stretches at a time. The problem is that in the past year our sex life has become a disaster. He can be gone for 5 weeks come home for a week and we may only have sex one time with lack of intimacy. The latter is what really bothers me. He says it is because he is getting older and can't perform like he used to..I call b.s. He is a wonderful man and I love him dearly. By no means do I base our relationship on sex alone....thank goodness. But I have needs that aren't being met. I would never cheat on him and truly believe he is faithful to me as well. He came home this past weekend and the day he was leaving I initiated sex and was told "Don't get mad, I'm leaving in a little bit, so no. Okay? I was outraged and hurt so bad. He's coming home in a few days. I need to talk to him about this but don't know how to address it? I don't want it to turn into a fight.
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