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Old December 5th, 2004, 12:04 PM   #1
Join Date: Jul 2003
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He's not looking for a relationship, but

I went out last night with a guy that I have liked for a long time. Since he's did the asking, I was pretty psyched. We talked about quite a few things over dinner, but then he drops a bomb. He's not into the "relationship thing", but he likes me and thinks that we have a lot in common and would like to hang out any time I'm interested.

I have to take what he said about not having a relationship at face value. If it's not what he wants, fine. I don't want to lose hiim as a friend, but fear that if we do "hang out" then I will be hoping for the day that he will actually want a relationship.

Should we hang out together (and I will just have to control my emotions), or do I possibly lose a friend by staying away?
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