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Old February 16th, 2009, 04:11 AM   #2
InLoveWithChandra
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That's so sad to hear.
I'm sorry for the two of you.

Now, I know how it feels to be left by someone I really love. However, when that someone left me, it took a long time for me to move on but I didn't beg for him to come back. What's left for me is my pride and that's all I have to start all over again. Thanks goodness, I've moved on.

So, just think that he will eventually learn to carry on with life without you. Its not really easy, almost everyone knows that BUT time will heal all broken hearts. In due time, he will learn to move on without you. Moving on varies from one person to another and it depends on one's willingness to move on.

Forgive me to say this but what he's doing is too much immaturity. You have offered to help him in any way that you can be he refused which means, he refused to help himself. Only him can help his own self. So don't feel guilty.

As for your case, the only thing I can tell you is that... I'm glad that you were able to realize that you need to find your own self. If you don't love him, then don't ever make the mistake of getting back with him just to make him feel better. It's hard to live in a lie so give yourself a break and do what you want and not what he want.

We only have one life and we should make the most out of it.


I hope it helps a bit. I really am sorry for him though but he got to help himself first.
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