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Old January 18th, 2005, 11:03 PM   #31
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It does and I wish her the best of luck. Some decisions are so tough to make. It seems no matter which one's are made someone is bound to feel the hurt. So on that note CamAm sending good thoughts your way.
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Old February 1st, 2005, 08:06 PM   #32
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Hi everyone. I was feeling really depressed and confused so I went underground for a while. My husband and I were talking on the phone back and forth. He wanted me to come back and give us another chance. He said he didn't realize how much he had put on me and that things would be different. I missed my little guy so much. It was very difficult, but I left my mom and went back to give it another try. Since I have been back he has been doing so much to help out, cooking, getting his son up in the morning and making his breakfast, giving him his bath at night. We have been talking instead of all that yelling. It has only been a week so we shall see if it lasts, but I can honestly say it is pleasant to be here. The three of us are really enjoying being a family again. He isn't picking at everything I do like he did before. It's so nice to have a happy peaceful home. I want to say thank you to everyone for all the kind words of support. I really appreciate it. It was just what I needed. Thanks again. Bye for now.
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Old February 1st, 2005, 09:10 PM   #33
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Wow, CanAm...I hope things continue along like this. Great news.
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Old February 1st, 2005, 09:52 PM   #34
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Congrats CamAm, Glad things are going in a positive direction. Sometimes it takes that separation period for someone to realize how much they miss the other party. And to realize that there is more done than meets the eye.
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Old February 1st, 2005, 11:27 PM   #35
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CanAm ...best of luck. This is so nice to hear.
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Old January 2nd, 2006, 02:16 AM   #36
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I think that you should definitely try to get him to go to counseling with you, if you decide youw ant to go back. That is importnat that way he will be less likely to take you for granted again.

And as far as yoru son, I don't think it will be too confusing for him to talk to you. And even if it is, it is far better for him to be confused than for him to feel abandoned. You need to talk to him and let him know that you still love him.

He is your son, no matter who birthed him, as far as he is concerned you are his mommy. And it is importnat that you treat him just as you would if he was biologically your own, if you do love him as I am sure that you do.

I hope things work out for you and your family! My thoughts are with you.
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Old January 4th, 2006, 06:12 PM   #37
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Talking Best of Luck!!!!

(((((((CanAm))))))))) Girl I love hearing how things are working out for you. Just like what the others here posting suggested that might be worthwhile. Plus it might build a better bond between your husband and your son. You dont necessarily have to give birth to a child to not love it or treat it as your flesh and blood. Those who are able are a blessing not only to those they reach out too but to themselves. For the fulfill a need and give it without expecting anything back.

So keep on doing what is in the best interest of those you love...yet dont forget what you have been thru for you will know what works and what doesnt work. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

(((((Cod Irish LiamFan mala))))))))

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