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Old March 19th, 2009, 12:29 AM   #1
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First time.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I'm still a virgin, I keep telling him I'm not ready yet, but that does stop him from trying. I think I'm going to have sex with him soon though.

I have some questions, and I thought why not ask here.
For one, what does it feel like when his pinis goes in, does it hurt?
Two, who brings the condom? And am I just to watch him put it on or do I help?
Three, do we talk about after?
That's all I can think of now, if there is something else I should know tell me.
Thanks!
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Old April 1st, 2009, 02:16 AM   #2
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I think if you're saying no and it doesn't stop him from trying and you have to ask questions like who brings the condom and do you talk afterward, you may need to reconsider. If you're not communicating clearly with your boyfriend enough for him to understand "no" and to discuss what steps you're both taking to have safe sex, then you're probably not communicating enough to have a fulfilling sexual relationship. Just some food for thought..
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Old April 8th, 2009, 09:37 AM   #3
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I think you both need to talk about what to expect in having sex for the first time. talking is important in a relationship so start with that.
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Old September 29th, 2009, 06:00 PM   #4
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I think if you're saying no and it doesn't stop him from trying to reconsider.
Ohh... No he was just being playfull about asking me.

Any Way. I forgot about this thread.
I did in fact have sex with him. The sex was a bit hard the first time. But we practice and now are enjoying it more. I think our relationship has grown alot because of sex,
but in no way is sex the most important thing in our relationship.
(it might be the funnest)
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Old September 30th, 2009, 10:11 AM   #5
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Morgan, good luck. You sound very young. Please be careful and I hope you are using safe sex. An unwanted pergnace is the last thing I am sure you want or need. Not to mention all the stds that are out there. Keep posting and remember we're here if you need to talk.
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Old October 5th, 2009, 07:29 PM   #6
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I think our relationship has grown alot because of sex,
but in no way is sex the most important thing in our relationship.
(it might be the funnest)
well it's true sex is not the most important thing in a relationship.
Sex in a relationship can make thing more complicated-
These things might help:
If you feel you should ever have to break off you'r relationship, don't feel that you can not: just because he is the first guy you have sleeped with.
I had thought that it was important to stay with my man because of religious beliefs. So I tell you if you think you should ever beak it off just do it.
-To me sex is a good way to take off stress:
If you do that= Do not let it over power you(it's easy)

If find out that you'r man is talking about his sex life with his friends- Do not Freak Out! Have a talk with him first!
-I found out that my man was talking about our sex life with his friends I freaked out.
-Then latter found that it's just something guys do.-
I talked to him about it and he doesn't do talk about as much now.
*But he told me that I can talk about our sex life to my friends.
So I'm going to.(not the way he did any way)

Most importantly Use Condoms!
And know this: If you find you'r self in trouble talk to me.
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Old January 13th, 2010, 01:56 AM   #7
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sex is the most important for you in this time pls don.t miss the chance
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