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Old July 15th, 2011, 11:38 AM   #91
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thank you irish eyes, i know that sex and love is not the same thing. sex is lust and has nothing to do with love. i have never had love in my life and probably never will. i am too ugly for men, they dont want a relationship with me. the only way they will have me is to have sex with them. if that is all they want they need to go out and get themselves a whore. i am soooo tired of their games. for you love is real, for me it is make believe, i have never experienced it and never will.
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Old July 15th, 2011, 09:38 PM   #92
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Unknown, you've convinced me. You've repeated it so often, that I think that you're right - you never will experience it. So maybe you should just go on with your life, and not look for a possibilty of love. Just live day to day, and be glad that bad things don't happen to you.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 12:06 AM   #93
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Good luck with your life Unknown. If one convinces themself that they are not worth being loved.. refuses to get help to find out why they feel this way. I feel so sorry for you. Again we are not dr's, therapists, we are willing to share our thoughts with you. You are the only one who can take the steps to get help. Good luck wishing you the best.

Jennifer23 thank you & sistergirl , and all who have attempted to help. Evidently help is not really wanted there. So good luck to you. Keep up your good work, your good attitude. All we can do now is wish Unknown the best & pray she finds her way.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 12:21 AM   #94
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I agree, Irish. I really do hope that she comes out of her "destiny", but it's up to her; just like it's up to the rest of us that have problems that we have to deal with. So, unknown, I'm sorry that I was harsh with you, but like Irish said, we're not doctors. You wanted advice, and we gave it to you. Maybe it's time to heal yourself.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 12:32 AM   #95
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Irish, thank you. I believe strongly that we get back what we give. We have to make a conscious effort if we want respect returned... and so life should not be treated as a one way street.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 12:48 AM   #96
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Well said, Sister.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 01:52 AM   #97
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ok bye too all. my next step is suicide. so enjoy what is left of your life.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 08:00 AM   #98
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UNKNOWN-MI GET HELP... IF YOU ARE THINKING SUICIDE CALL THE 800 SUICIDE line in your area. WE can't help you. Don't toss the blame on us. As Jennifer, Sistergirl, & I have told you get help in real life. Get a therapist. Call the 800 suicide help line.
TAKE TIME TO GET YOUSELF HELP. GET YOURSELF HELP! GET YOURSELF HELP. We can not do that for you. Again Good luck. Make the right decision.. that is never suicide.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 06:57 PM   #99
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Irish, this chick is a phony....this is a spammer, trust me. Because if she were for real she would be seeking help in the real world and not wasting time on some forum. Sorry, this is my gut feeling. She/he wants one thing on this forum...to get our attention no matter how. I am not biting...Bye ML.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 07:00 PM   #100
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p.s. I have dealt with people like this on another forum a long time ago and they are called manipulators, bullies....not worth my time and effort.

If this person was for real they would be appreciative at the very least....notice...zero appreciation and constant demising of our efforts.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 08:54 PM   #101
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Girls, I agree with Sister. You reach a point where you say what the hell is going on here? But Unknown, before you do yourself in, get back to us to let us know how you're going to do it.
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Old July 16th, 2011, 09:51 PM   #102
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You are both right. I've met these people before. However I want anyone reading this to know.. Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works.

Yes, I absolutely noticed Unknown-mi played it to the hilt. What a pity. We have seen it before in chat. That person was found out * reported.

Once again sistergirl & Jennifer you are very observant, helpful & caring. Thank you for that. Don't let someone of this caliber change you.

**Suicide is never the answer. Getting help is the only ans that works.**
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Old July 16th, 2011, 10:25 PM   #103
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Hi Irish, people like that cannot change who I am. I am pretty well grounded. She should be reported.
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Old July 18th, 2011, 02:07 PM   #104
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Hello Unknown,
As a matter of fact I never dated in high school I was always the friend to everyone. Then I was rapped in College so I tried to find love and still haven't had anyone who cares. However we can't down ourselves because men want confident women it makes them feel uncomfortable when women put themselves down! And I wasn't trying to preach to you or at you unlike Gaibella said, I'm just sharing what I've been taught! And. Trying to encourage you, but ultimately the decision is yours! I hope you find real happiness and joy and no it won't come from a man or person, because we as human beings fail. Learn to love God and yourself and watch a door will open and the knight will come charging! Luv ya and be blessed in spite of it all! U are still beautiful I don't care what u say! LoL
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