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Old August 30th, 2008, 07:02 PM   #31
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(((((NotCrazyJoJo))))) What Irish said.

Have you gone to the police? I know that, either way, that's a tough decision for a bunch of reasons. Thank God your gf is supportive.

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Old August 31st, 2008, 09:25 PM   #32
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((((((((((Daccie))))))))))))),

Our momma's must have been related. Very smart ladies.
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Old August 31st, 2008, 10:15 PM   #33
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update on what it is happening. ok we have decided to keep the baby. It was a hard and emotional decision but we are keeping him/her. The kids are ok with it. We had a family meeting and we decided together as a family, this baby needs love and cared for. We picked out names this morning. Boy: Joseph Dean, Girl: Tina Marie. Due date is April 30th. I am so lucky that I have my love, my rock, my soul mate. She has been there thru everything and I am thankfull she came into mine and my kids life. We told her parents tonight and they are sad it happended but support our decision to keep this innocent child. Her mom is already talking baby shower and setting up nursery. Her dad is going to build us a special rocking chair to put in the nursery. Thank you all for your kind words and messages may God bless you. Hopefully the cops due their job and put this SOB where he belongs. We are not going to make this innocent baby suffer. Huggggss to all.
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Old September 4th, 2008, 05:32 PM   #34
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I am trying to prepare myself for the loss of an old dog and old cat. They are my friends and part of my family. I know in my heart that they will be at the Rainbow Bridge waiting for me but I wish they didn't have to go.
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Old September 4th, 2008, 07:27 PM   #35
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((((((((kk)))))))) I'm so sorry. Enjoy the time you have left with them. I don't know that we can ever really be prepared. I lost my dog Madison just over 2 and 1/2 years ago. I have a wonderful almost 2 year old "puppy" now, but I'll always miss Madison. She was one of a kind, as they all are. It's a lot easier now though, to remember the good stuff instead of the end.
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Old September 4th, 2008, 08:06 PM   #36
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(((( kk )))) Sorry hun... Yes they will be waiting for you... Take care hun.
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Old September 5th, 2008, 11:08 AM   #37
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Old April 14th, 2009, 10:04 PM   #38
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I've come here again cause I am missin my mom sooo much. Today has been a really hard day and I'm not sure why. If anyone had told me I would feel so alone and lost I would have told them they were crazy!! Why did it take me losing her to really know how much I love her and how hard it is not to have her just a phone call away? Now that both my folks are gone, each time I think I'm doing better I have a day like this? It seems all I have done today is cry and pull away from everyone.
I know in time it'll be easier but right now it hurts so much. Thanks everyone for letting me have a place so wonderful as wow to put this all down.
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Old April 15th, 2009, 09:34 PM   #39
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(((( crazy )))))

I know what you are goiong through m/f.. Mom has been gone a little over a year. And I still have bad days. Some days I don't want to get out of bed.. But then I have to stop and think of all the things waiting for me when I get up.. There have been days when I feel like going to join her. But, I know she is here with me, *itching at me every second for feeling like that. And I also know I have to pull my chin up and keep moving. If not, my famliy and friends would be in the same boat about me as I am about my mom..


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Old April 16th, 2009, 02:41 PM   #40
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((((((Daccie))))) TY . I think what set me off was that I called yesterday and signed up for a 6 week grieving group at a local church. I know mom is with me too. It's I just don't feel it as much as I did when Dad died. Now that they are both gone, I just feel so lost some times. I know you all are here for me and that in of itself helps.
Big huggers to you and your little one. He is soo cute!!
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Old April 16th, 2009, 02:42 PM   #41
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((((((Daccie))))) TY . I think what set me off was that I called yesterday and signed up for a 6 week grieving group at a local church. I know mom is with me too. It's I just don't feel it as much as I did when Dad died. Now that they are both gone, I just feel so lost some times. I know you all are here for me and that in of itself helps.
Big huggers to you and your little one. He is soo cute!!
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Old April 17th, 2009, 04:07 PM   #42
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((((((((( Daccie, crazymomma))))))))))),
Thinking of both of you. Crazymomma glad you signed on to the grief group. That way you'll meet people going through the same feelings. Sometimes when you get to talk about it with others it helps with your pain.

Hang in there both of you. Know that we are here for you as well.
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Old April 18th, 2009, 12:02 PM   #43
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(((((((((((IRISH)))))))))) That is why I love this place so much. I know it helps to talk. The trouble here is that I know my daughter who is 14 is going through just as much pain but she won't show it and she won't let in out for anyone to see. I hope these sessions will not only help me but that I will be able to bring home words that help her too.
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Old June 30th, 2009, 12:00 AM   #44
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Old July 1st, 2009, 08:34 PM   #45
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We buried mom the first Sat. of last month. I have good days more than I do bad. Thanks Hon for asking. It means a lot to me.
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