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Old May 29th, 2008, 09:24 PM   #16
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Both my parents have passed also. They are always with me as I carry them in my heart and my memories. My mother pased in 1975 and my father in 1976. Mymother was the dearest, sweetest person I have ever known. My dfad was a little hard to get close to until I grew upand figured hm out. They were the world's greatest parents and I wish I could only be as good at it as they were.
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Old May 29th, 2008, 09:25 PM   #17
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GROUP HUG ALL AROUND!!!!! Hugs, rosanne
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Old June 1st, 2008, 07:59 PM   #18
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Old June 1st, 2008, 09:01 PM   #19
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update on (((((DACDjr))))) I finally spoke to her and all is well, she should be back in a couple of weeks. kids and hubby are fine. Just thought I would let you all know.
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Old June 1st, 2008, 10:10 PM   #20
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(((((BIG hugs))))))) all. Glad to hear the DACDjr will be back with us soon she has been missed.
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Old August 11th, 2008, 08:26 PM   #21
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((((( Everyone ))))))

Just when you think you know someone, they go and do something
that is so ummm hmmmm LOL

Ever have a dream of a loved one who has passed on and they say something in that dream that they said to you when alive? Had a dream about momma last night, she hugged me tight and said everything will be okay. Man I needed to hear that for awhile now.
My life has been flipped upside down, going through HeLLo as we speak, and yet, I find comfort here and in my dreams, how amazing is that?

Someone in WOW once told me that if life gets to serious, just come into WOW and you will find a "snicker" or two.. TRUST me I did today.

Smooches to all my WOW friends, thanks for being you.

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Old August 12th, 2008, 01:57 AM   #22
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(((((((DACDjr))))))))
the power of a dream. I often have wondered why there can't just be cell-phones in heaven. I would sure love to hear my sis' voice again.
I just told my fiance last night that i wished i could dream about her. i wish she would come to me in my dreams.
I haven't dreamed about her since the nightmares stopped. So maybe its a transition time. I feel her places....when im riding alone in my car...or if i start to get scared..home alone or something....she is there.
I know exactly what you mean about WOW.
smooches back at ya!!!!!
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Old August 12th, 2008, 08:49 PM   #23
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(((( Okie ))))

I so could not agree with you more on the "cell phone" in Heaven. But then again that would take away the mystery and wonders of our final journy. Know what I mean?

Even though you and I have had two different losses, one by natural causes and one by something terrible. I feel your pain, and I am so glad you are doing good. I know our pain will never go away,
but it is comforting in a way to know I am not alone, and someone is taking these steps with me.


I NEED TO SEE A SHRINK
I sound like Dr. Phil during Mrs. Phils' aunt flo's visit.


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Old August 12th, 2008, 10:04 PM   #24
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(((( Okie ))))

I so could not agree with you more on the "cell phone" in Heaven. But then again that would take away the mystery and wonders of our final journy. Know what I mean?

Even though you and I have had two different losses, one by natural causes and one by something terrible. I feel your pain, and I am so glad you are doing good. I know our pain will never go away,
but it is comforting in a way to know I am not alone, and someone is taking these steps with me.


I NEED TO SEE A SHRINK
I sound like Dr. Phil during Mrs. Phils' aunt flo's visit.


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Love the referance to Aunt Flo and Mrs Phil's )


When my mom passed in '88 I would call her phone # without a second thought.. something would happen .. and the " Oh I have to let mom know .." .. For some reason that number was not given away for a yr.

Funny the other day I met my daughter & family at the pool here. My son in law turned to smile at me. Holy moly the smile from the side was my brother's. He must have been letting me know he was happy. That smile just beamed. Did tell my son in law and he gave me an extra hug. Said he wished he got to meet him.


((((((((((((((((( Extra hugs to all ))))))))))))))))))))) Bless your hearts.
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Old August 19th, 2008, 01:29 PM   #25
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I really wish my mom was here. I really could use her love and support right now. You see I have been really sick. Finally went to the doctor and it is not good. I have spent last couple of days in and out of the hospital being tested for lupus, fibro miyalgia, I have to have a biopsy done on a mole on my back, and he is testing me for a form of leukemia that effects your bones and blood. I am really scared. I was not so scared until the doctor's at the hospital asked me if I had made arrangements for my kids, if needed. They want to do do a living will. I just don't know what to do. I am not ready for this, not ready to here the test results. My doc says he knows I am scared but it is something I have to deal with and take care of before I get any sicker. Please everyone keep me and my kids in your prayers. I go today to find out some of the results on those tests. I am scared but I am trying to be strong for my girls.
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Old August 19th, 2008, 06:52 PM   #26
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((((((((((((( NotsocrazyJOJO ))))))))))))))) My prayers and thoughts are with you. Hope it all works out differently. We're here for you.
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Old August 23rd, 2008, 01:25 PM   #27
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Ok I have gotten some news about everything. I have fibromiyalgia, type 2 diabetes but he says if I change my diet and lose 45pds. That it will not be an issue. My cholesterol is very high, my body is not producing any good cholesterol. So I need medicine for that. Went to the RA specialist yesterday and he is going to find out from my pych. Doc what medicine would be safe to put me on with my pych meds. Also he wants to have a sleep study done, he suspects I also have sleep apnea. I am releaved in a way, but still scared. Never had an MRI done and that scares me. I guess I am just being silly and probley have no reason to be scared about MRI. Just wanted to let you all know how things are going. Thanks for your help and words of support. HUGS to you all!!!
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Old August 23rd, 2008, 03:14 PM   #28
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(((((((((( Ncjj))))))),

An MRI is noisy but it doesn't hurt. Sleep study is a good way to find if you have sleep apnea. Using the CPAP machine is a life saver.

Don't have fibromiyalgia, or type2 diabetes or high cholesterol, but know people that live with those. Watch your diet. Take your meds as prescribed. Take care of you.

Good luck with it all. Hang in there all these things are workable.
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Old August 30th, 2008, 01:03 PM   #29
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Everyone I need your support. You see on Aug. 7th I was raped in a kroger bathroom because I am a lesbian. I was so freaked out and scared I did not tell anyone till about a week ago. I went to the obgyn this past thursday and I am pregnant. Due date May 15. I took a home test when I did not start and it came out negative. But the blood test says I am. My GF has been very supportive and loving thru all this. She will be by my side no matter what happens. I am just in knots on what to do. I don't believe in abortion. It is not this baby's fault this happened. But then I don't know that I can carry a baby for nine months and then give him/her away. I don't know that I can have this baby and not think about what happen and how this child was concieved every time I see his/her face. I don't know how to tell my kids. My Gf says if I choose to keep this baby she will support my decision, and be a parent to this child. She put her hand on my belly last night and we prayed that God will give us the strength to do what is right by this innocent baby growing inside of me. So please keep us in your prayers and thoughts. Thank you all for your kind words and support. Hugs to everyone.
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Old August 30th, 2008, 04:36 PM   #30
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((((((( NotSocrazyJOJO )))))))))),

Whether someone is a lesbian or str8 Rape is rape. It is a violation of you a person. It is the act of a coward.
You say it's not the baby's fault that's true. Realize it's not your fault either, please. Whatever you choose to do, I'm glad your g/f is standing by you. Bless you both.

Hopefully when you did finally talk to the dr about the rape it got reported!!!

PLease please don't blame yourself, or your lifestyle for it. Put the blame squarely on the shoulders of the SOB that committed the crime of rape against you.

Whatever you decide to do. The decision is yours to make. Wish you less pain.

Bless you & your g/f.

How old are your kids? Sometimes it's better to tell them in the easiest way possible. You never know what story they may hear on it otherwise.

Let us know. Keep us informed. Know that we are here.
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