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Old September 27th, 2010, 02:18 PM   #1
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I am a grandma of 48 and I have a son in law who constantly does provocative things to me. He has several times showed me his penis and even touched me with his penis for a second when it was hard. What should I do.
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Old November 5th, 2010, 01:12 PM   #2
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With the information given what I believe you should do is first of all to not laugh it off as if it's a harmless act. If he's 12 years or younger he's probably seeing it being done on TV, school or at home. If he's a teenager then you need to not only think of what he's doing to you but what he can be doing to other females and how they would feel. You need to sit down with him and tell him what he's doing isn't funny and that it's disrespectful. Find out the source of this inappropriate behaviour and stop it before it gets worse. Yes, this can be awkward to discuss, but you'll regret not doing something about it in the future.
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Old November 16th, 2010, 12:47 PM   #3
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Son-in-law implies marriage, which suggests it's an adult engaging in this behavior, not a child or a teen.

Would you accept that behavior from any other adult male you have contact with? Think about what you would do if the grocery checker or the bank teller engaged in the same behavior, then do exactly that.

You deserve more respect and so does your child.
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Old November 18th, 2010, 02:59 PM   #4
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Totally agree with Tammy!
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Old November 20th, 2010, 05:32 PM   #5
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I so agreed with Tammy, too. This is a totally inappropriate action on his part.
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Old February 11th, 2011, 09:43 PM   #6
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Son-in-law implies marriage, which suggests it's an adult engaging in this behavior, not a child or a teen.

Would you accept that behavior from any other adult male you have contact with? Think about what you would do if the grocery checker or the bank teller engaged in the same behavior, then do exactly that.

You deserve more respect and so does your child.
I agree. If he was not your son-in-law, you would probably break his penis off as evidence to take to the nearest police station! That's what you need to do. You may think you're sparing your daughter and your family a problem, but you're only enabling it.
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Old February 8th, 2012, 12:39 AM   #7
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Ask a nurse. She know what to do. Lets put it like this: a swift strike of the penis will make it no longer useable.
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Old February 8th, 2012, 05:45 AM   #8
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Yes but it can also accidentally kill a man. Found that out when I was a kid.
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Old February 20th, 2012, 10:49 PM   #9
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If he's doing that to you, then he is also acting inapproprately with other women. Your daughter deserves better than that. Sorry, to me that's just perverted. He should be looking at you like he would his own mother. Definitely tell him you don't appreciate it. I'd probably slap him so hard and leave finger marks, that he'd have a hard time explaining to his wife why he has a handprint on his face.
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