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Old December 22nd, 2012, 06:44 AM   #1
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Lightbulb Being alone?

We all know what the statistics say about people being alone during the Holidays. What is usually going to happen more often than not. However, if you have reached out as that person so you arent alone, and no one responds at all what do you do?
Well I have many things to do now that He has gone. I have to clean up this "trashy house" cause we all know that did it all by myself. Yeah ok. NOT!
Yet I wonder why not one of my friends who are nearby dont see the writing on the wall.
I know one is more self absorbed in the drama of her life and her daughters. Sad but true.
Another only because they are wanting someone to do their dinner since they have bare necessities. Where as I have just a bit more but not by much. Same said people told me to stay home and keep "the sickness" from their house. After I left a bag of food at their house wasnt allowed in and they sprayed lysol over around their doorstep.
So that is why I have the choices I do which is none.
Ok so be it. Not expected to be anywhere for anyone. Then dont look me up when you have time for me. Dont call to chat. Dont act like I wont forget this either. NO I am not mad per se just hurt for only their things are important but not another's Life.
So should I care you do what you do to make your life a misery yet expect others to rally around you when you cant call, text or leave a voicemail for them?
I do like the #20#26 acts of random kindness spurred by the Conn. shooting masacre. Just really sad not one of my friends that are nearby can or will do anything towards it.

Ok now done venting per se but I wanted to remind all of us to step out of our safety zone. To help another for you may never get the chance again.

So are you doing to do the #20#26 Acts of Random Kindness?
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Old December 22nd, 2012, 05:50 PM   #2
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I'm with you, Wolfie! And it's not about your personal situation, but the attitudes of people, whether it happens to be the holiday season or not. Alot of people now don't care about niceness. Whenever someone holds a door open for me I always say "thank you". Thank you and you're welcome are so easy to say and yet not everyone does. I suppose they are living in their own worlds where common courtesy doesn't exist.
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Old December 23rd, 2012, 12:25 PM   #3
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Or having a bad day! LOL But tis ok we remember those things and that is what matters to us! Merry Christmas! Hugs
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Old January 3rd, 2013, 12:14 PM   #4
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I just saw these posts so pardon the tardy response. But I do agree.

There are no limits to personal behavior and the arcane concepts of decency, honor and integrity are from a bygone era.
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Old January 5th, 2013, 09:08 AM   #5
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Yes although it does show up rarely but man is that awesome when it does? Hugs
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Old January 7th, 2013, 11:49 AM   #6
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Old January 9th, 2013, 07:58 AM   #7
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Tis not a competition Priscilla it just is great when the rarity does show up. Making such a delightful surprise when it does. To realize all that we have gone thru to arrive where we are at that time to be blessed by the surprise.

Btw I got laid off yesterday so back to the drawing board. LOL Have a great day! Hugs
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Old January 9th, 2013, 09:55 PM   #8
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Last week someone let me out when traffic was backed up. I gave him a big wave and he waved back. Little gestures can mean alot.
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Old January 9th, 2013, 11:55 PM   #9
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I agree. Hugs sweetie!
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Old January 10th, 2013, 09:14 AM   #10
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Wolf you are right, not a competition. Hard to change a personality though.
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Old January 10th, 2013, 09:56 AM   #11
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No worries Priscilla!

Now here is something I could use some opinions on ok?
If a person cheats i.e. on significant other Who's fault is it when that person does?
IS it the person who set up the two to meet as introductions?
Is it the person that the cheater does it with?
Or is it the person who had ultimate choice and cheated on their significant other?

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Old January 10th, 2013, 06:20 PM   #12
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I think the last one the key word is choice the one who got cheated on had no choice in it.
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Old January 11th, 2013, 08:53 PM   #13
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sound thinking daughter.
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Old January 12th, 2013, 09:48 PM   #14
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Yes I agree and it was me who had no choice.
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Old January 13th, 2013, 07:52 PM   #15
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AWWW (((((((((((Wolfie))))))))))) We loveb you anyway! so come here and yell and scream and let it all one. We will still love you anyway! That's cause wes friends and thats what wes do.
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